Will Your Child Pick the Right Crowd?

 

 

 

This is Scot with Revolution Modern Martial Arts. Since 2009 we have helped thousands of kids build their confidence and discipline so that they can be more successful at home, school, and life.

 
What do you think would happen if we took 100 teenagers from all over the country and put them in a gymnasium?
 
 
Then we Shut the door with no instructions and left them alone.
I’m pretty confident within a short period of time they would divide themselves into groups.
 
 
Ask your self this question: which group do I want my child to be in?
 
 
If you are like most parents the very first reaction is to hope they are going to link up with kids who are a positive influence.
 
 
But so many parents feel powerless over which peers their child will choose to be influenced by
 
and parents should worry that TV music the Internet and other people could have more influence over their kids than they do.
 
 
As a parent myself I know that it’s a justifiable concern that our kids could fall into the wrong crowd and start making bad decisions 
 
and let's be honest we all know where that can lead to.
 
 
So how do you prevent your kids from getting in with the wrong crowd?
 
 
Well here’s the deal....
 
You decide now to make sure they will be in the right group and make the correct decisions before they ever enter those difficult teenage years.
 
 
The time to really start working on this is when your child is between the ages of 3 and 12 years old.
 
 
And the number one thing that is really going to contribute to your child making those good decisions is confidence
and here is why:
 
When your child has the self-confidence to know right from wrong and to stand by their decisions they are going to be immune to negative peer pressure.
 
 
This is important because peer pressure preys on a child’s lack of belief in themselves
 
and it exploits the false belief that in order to be excepted they need to do what everyone else does.
 
 
So the antidote for peer pressure is self-confidence because
a self-confident child is going to say "I don’t care what everyone else thinks....
I know what is right, I know what’s wrong and I’m going to stand by the best decision"
 
 
So the question isn’t how do we make sure they don’t get in the wrong crowd.....
 
the real question we need to be asking is how do we cultivate that confidence in our children?
 
 
I want to give you a quick little idea that can help you to start giving your a child boost of confidence right now.
 
 
The trick is to catch your kids doing things right instead of looking for what they did wrong.
 
 
Also, ask your child what he or she enjoyed doing today to find the things that made them feel strong and empowered
 
find the areas where they did a great job and shine a bright light on it.
 
 
People say where energy goes our focus goes and if we key in on what your child is doing right and what they’re good at
not only will they continue to repeat those positive behaviors but they’re going to feel good about themselves.
 
They will start having the confidence they need to make the best choices.
 
 
Listen, the fact that you are reading this right now really indicates you are a dedicated parent
and you truly care about your child's future.
 
 
I want to take a minute to thank you, not just for reading this email
but for your effort and your care of how your children turn out.
 
I think you and I can both agree even though we may never have met that we live in a pretty good country
 
and we could agree that the fabric of America is made up of people that live here.
 
 
Our kids are the next generation of people that will define what this country stands for.
 
By being the parent you are and by dedicating yourself to making sure your child really makes the best decisions 
 
you’re ensuring that our country is going to be left in the hands of great individuals.
 
 
That is truly something important and it makes you an exceptional parent so I want to offer you my respect and my support.
 
 

And if you are interested in getting your child involved in our program, where we teach the ins and outs of confidence, click the link below:

 

Click Here to Learn More About Our 6 Week Kids Confidence Karate Program!

 

 



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